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This post originally appeared August 20, 2013 on Uncommon YA<\/a>, the home of gutsy YA fiction. Check out this awesome site where YA authors tell it like it is!<\/em><\/p>\n

One Thing. <\/em>When I saw this blog assignment title, I immediately thought of that One Direction song. Admit it, you\u2019re humming it right now. \u201cI need that one thing. And YOU’VE<\/strong> got that ONE THING<\/strong>.\u201d (Full disclosure: I\u2019m dad to a Brit-obsessed pre-teen daughter.)<\/p>\n

Well, for me, successful writing typically involves three things. Okay, there are a bunch (Rolling Rock and my wife\u2019s potato salad were integral to completing THE NAMESAKE<\/em>), but my big three are: Observation, Imagination and Persistence. I preach these to my students as keys to process, and I use them when creating poetry and fiction. Observation involves incorporating real-world elements and experience, and imagination\u2019s a given for making up stories. So these first two have to do with creating<\/em> the work. Anyone who writes\u2014or opens his or her eyes daily\u2014knows persistence is all about self-propelled forward motion.<\/p>\n

But this post is about selling<\/em> one\u2019s creation, and as it turns out, persistence is pretty essential there, too; it\u2019s most effective paired with pushing past self-imposed limitations. Here\u2019s what I mean. In regular life, I\u2019m generally a nice guy. Colleagues at the college where I teach coached me in the art of saying no, fearing I\u2019d be capsized by tasks I agreed to undertake. That\u2019s me, agreeable. I\u2019m also a believer in meant-to-be, and even in \u201cwhatever-will-be\u201d. This has sometimes led to taking the path of least resistance, the path of not making waves, not sending back the overcooked steak, the path to inertia.<\/p>\n

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When it came to my novel, I forged a different path. On some gut-deep level, THE NAMESAKE<\/em> mattered to me so intensely I had to persist. And several twists in the road to publication seemed to indicate it would never happen. I won\u2019t bore you with details of the high-powered senior executive editor who liked my book, but unfortunately also wanted to live life (Life = having twins, earning an MLS; quitting her house to be an agent; then abandoning publishing altogether to become a librarian\u2014librarians rock, btw). And I won\u2019t go into the countless rejections from agents, some who loved the voice but didn\u2019t love the story. Every author, published or un, can tell a similar tale.<\/p>\n

You get the picture. Many times it would\u2019ve been easier to quit. To be the quiet, nice guy, seemingly okay taking no for the final answer. But the toughest moment involved my agent. Well, my former<\/em> agent. Remember the high-powered editor? When she took an interest in my early chapters, I knew I\u2019d need representation. So I did some homework. I researched YA novels she\u2019d edited, particularly those of debut novelists. I read some, and I queried agents who\u2019d been acknowledged by their appreciative authors. And with one of these, I struck gold. Real-life, invited-to-New-York, office-elevator-bigger-than-our-kitchen, fancy-lunch-and-drinks, swept-me-off-my-feet gold. This agent was a SOMEBODY. He\u2019d worked for years as an editor. Founded a well-known press. Was seemingly gaga for my manuscript<\/em>? I signed on the dotted line, and rode the train home starry-eyed. <\/p>\n

Sadly, our instantaneous click almost as instantaneously fizzled. Nothing happened with my novel for over two years. At that point, I made one of the boldest decisions of my life. I made waves. I sent back the steak. I (amicably) dumped that agent. We both knew we made a bad match, but I was the one who took the necessary\u2014and difficult\u2014step. Although that was a definite low point, I actually felt pretty good (Well, after plunging into a deep-but-brief bout of despair); you see, somehow, I still believed in THE NAMESAKE<\/em>. And, having spent those two-plus, agented-limbo years reworking independently, I began submitting right away (well, after the mandated thirty days). It turned out the second agent who fell for my book, the fantastic Victoria Marini of Gelfman Schneider<\/a>, was really THE ONE. Speaking of persistence, Victoria was THE NAMESAKE<\/em>\u2019s Fairy Godmother of Persistence\u2014but in a non-flighty, totally professional way\u2014and her persistence led me to Jacquelyn Mitchard and Merit Press. Huzzah! <\/p>\n

Anyway, when it came to selling my book, like anyone\u2019s, there were many factors. Observation and imagination were essential in creating a saleable product. However, in that home stretch, persistence was definitely that one thing I needed most. And somehow (The grace of God? The prayers of a 90-something-year-old nun? An army of supportive friends and relatives, and one amazingly encouraging wife?), I realized\u2014to paraphrase 1D–I\u2019VE<\/strong> got that ONE THING<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Buy The Namesake: Amazon US<\/a>, Amazon Canada<\/a>, Barnes & Noble<\/a>, IndieBound<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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