{"id":239,"date":"2013-08-02T19:48:51","date_gmt":"2013-08-02T19:48:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevenparlato.com\/?p=239"},"modified":"2021-07-17T18:13:18","modified_gmt":"2021-07-17T22:13:18","slug":"five-ya-books-every-guy-should-read","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/stevenparlato.com\/?p=239","title":{"rendered":"Five YA Books Every Guy Should Read"},"content":{"rendered":"

Adolescence is more than an awkward pit stop along the highway to adulthood. As Five for Fighting<\/em> sings in \u201c100 Years,\u201d the teenager is \u201ccaught between ten and twenty.\u201d That\u2019s an apt description because those in-between years, though filled with excitement and promise, are also fraught with confusion, uncertainty and self-doubt. For both genders, expectations are ridiculously high. The adolescent is meant to seamlessly coast from adorable, obedient child to model-perfect, self-sufficient adult. Wrong turns, flat tires, even fender-benders are expected, but often not tolerated by well-meaning (if selectively forgetful) adults. Since we\u2019ve yet to invent a flawless adolescent GPS to help teens navigate the tricky interstate of adolescence, I\u2019d like to suggest\u2013as a parent\/author\/teacher\u2013a meaningful alternative: Young Adult Fiction.<\/p>\n

Dealing with issues familiar to teens: forced maturation, the crafting of Self, the quest for autonomy, YA fiction is great training as teenagers\u2013guys especially\u2013test drive the demands of encroaching adulthood. If I were putting together a manual to help teen guys negotiate the twisting road of adolescence, it would have to address some key topics. These would include accepting oneself, talents and flaws included; greeting the world\u2019s inhabitants with respect and compassion; persisting despite incredible odds; finding humor in dark times, and cherishing relationships.<\/p>\n

To save myself the work of writing such a manual (and to fulfill the demands of this post), I\u2019ll suggest five books that address these topics beautifully. Here, in no particular order, I give you five young adult books every guy should read:<\/p>\n

1) I\u2019ve used The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian<\/em>, by Sherman Alexie, with great success in many writing classes. The main character, Arnold Spirit Junior, immediately wins readers over with his disarming sense of humor in the face of poverty, prejudice and difficult physical challenges. He models perseverance and embodies the idea that the human spirit lives large in the adolescent. Alexie frankly addresses topics like masturbation, alcoholism and prejudice, and never shies away from realistic language, but his humor and insight are true and heartfelt. The illustrations\u2013Junior is a budding cartoonist\u2013are a hoot!<\/p>\n

2) Laurie Halse Anderson\u2019s Speak<\/em> is a YA classic, and rightly so. Sadly, because it focuses on a young woman, Melinda Sordino, it is often considered a \u201cgirl book\u201d. I find such distinctions meaningless; when we categorize solely by gender, we rob readers of rich and varied perspectives. As far as I\u2019m concerned, Speak should be read by everyone, female\/male, adolescent\/adult. The novel is a sometimes brutal (though never graphic) depiction of the aftermath of rape. In my classes, it\u2019s led to frank\u2014and frankly disturbing\u2014discussions. In a society where supposedly educated people debate the concept of \u201clegitimate\u201d rape, Anderson\u2019s book is as relevant as ever. Melinda\u2019s progression from victim to survivor is transformative for readers as well, and Anderson\u2019s message that struggles are less difficult when shared is important for guys, who often tend to embrace the stereotype of silence as strength. <\/p>\n

3) In Mark Haddon\u2019s novel, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time<\/em>, we meet Christopher, a brilliant fifteen-year-old who happens to be on the autism spectrum. Haddon\u2019s portrayal, grounded in his experience working with autistic individuals, is remarkably true and engaging. The book drives home the crucial idea that differences can be opportunities, that apparent deficits may in fact be unique strengths. The book has wonderful characters, ample humor and a twisty whodunit, but it also fosters compassion, reminding readers that, through perseverance and a commitment to truth, all things are possible. These are significant lessons for the young adult, and Haddon imparts them without ever preaching. As we gradually get to know and root for Christopher, we learn along with him about the amazing potential each individual possesses. Christopher\u2019s final words in the book, \u201cI can do anything,\u201d may even act as inspiration for the adolescent unsure of his own place and abilities. <\/p>\n

4) My students, friends and family are likely sick of my gushing about The Book Thief<\/em>, by Markus Zusak. This brilliantly wrought novel, rich with beautiful characterization and poetic language, takes us on a heartrending journey through Holocaust-era Germany. For its historical perspective, unique narrator, and focus on the redemptive potential of relationships and words, The Book Thief must be experienced. Reading Zusak\u2019s novel, a young man in one of my classes came to the realization that literature could actually make him feel. The journey of Liesel Meminger, a German girl who falls in love with books, made him laugh, made him angry, made him care. This was, for me as author and educator, truly powerful, a reminder of the revelatory nature of YA literature.<\/p>\n

5) This may seem like a cop out, but there are so many wonderful YA reads: adventures, fantasies, paranormals, realistic contemporaries, that I\u2019m at a loss to winnow down and fill that final slot. Let me just say I\u2019m a huge Chris Crutcher fan. He handles gritty, realistic fiction masterfully, with such amazing insight and humor, that he belongs on any list. Plus, he\u2019s landed on the challenged list multiple times; clearly he\u2019s doing something right. Read Iron Man<\/em>; it\u2019s not about the superhero, but you won\u2019t be disappointed.<\/p>\n

So I\u2019ll leave this list sort of like the average adolescent guy\u2014in a slightly unfinished state\u2014and wish you exciting journeys with words. <\/p>\n

Post first appeared on the Merit Press official FB Page, 8\/2\/13.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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